Text that won Eliana has beautiful message about the “breaks” in the life of a mother

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The arrival of a child can completely change the life of a woman. The thoughts of many of them spend thousands of questions about the creation of their little, beyond the constant fear of making a mistake by assuming the role of caregiver.

These issues are very personal, develop in different ways in each woman and a very delicate text that is circulating on the Internet reflects on these uncertainties in the maternity ward.

His beautiful message won many moms, including Eliana, who recently gave Manuela light.

The presenter shared on your Instagram text "The Children and the World", The blogger Fernanda Marques, and the publication has won over half a million tanned, read in its entirety:

Text on maternity

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"Today I took my coffee with tears and my mouth amargava the longing I feel my mother. I wondered how many times, since I became a mother, I've heard the phrase 'not pause his life for children, for them one day grow' or some variation of it, repeated, albeit unintentionally, as a disguised form of scrutinizing and belittle maternal dedication. If pro world creates child, everyone says. Wings, wings blessed. I know, you know.

Not pause life. curious idea that since becoming a mother is to live eternally breaks. For nine months (or more) we break the wine. For about 40 days (but probably much more) we pause sexual life. For many, many nights we sleep break. We break the meeting, the important link, promotion. We break saving because saving money is difficult. We break meals and baths. We break travel plans, the outputs with friends, trips to the hairdresser. We break the heart in concern and we pause to breathe life itself to them.

Create for the world. What would that be? I suppose my mother raised me 'to the world', always giving me wings. I left home at 14 and at 18 I left the country. I win this big world for which she raised me. But the truth is I never stopped being it. A piece of it. A product of it. So that even with her more than 30 years, I still need her to pause her life for me. She paused. 2 passes, three months here, living my life. She pauses on the generosity of those who are used to pause and give and love and love and love.

So I think, as I take my coffee with tears and bitter homesickness I feel my mother, that children are not of the world. Our children are ours! They came from us and return to us again and again. While away, they are ours. Our pieces. Our products. The products of all our breaks. Why the break we strengthen the bond is the break we build memories. It is in the pause of life, this incessant live the other, amidst the pain and sacrifices, as women, we often find ourselves full; and more than that, we see the mothers."

"Pause life for the children ... I wondered how many times, since I became a mother, I've heard the phrase "not pause his life for children, for them one day grow"; as a disguised form of belittling maternal dedication. It creates the world pro child, everyone says. Wings, wings blessed. I know, you know. Not pause life. curious idea that since becoming a mother is to live eternally breaks. For nine months, break the wine. For about 40 days to break the sex life. For many, many nights sleep pause, pause the meeting, the important link, the professional opportunity. Pause saving because saving money is difficult. We break meals and baths. Break travel plans, the outputs with friends, trips to the hairdresser. We break the heart in concern and pause his life to breathe theirs. Create for the world. What would that be? I suppose my mother raised me "to the world," always giving me wings. I win this big world to which my mother raised me. But the truth is I never stopped being it. A piece of it. A product of it. So I think, as I take my tea and miss my mother, that children are not of the world. Our children are ours! They came from us and return to us again and again. While away, they are ours. Our pieces. Our products. The products of all our breaks. Why the break we strengthen the bond is the break we build memories. It is in the pause of life, this incessant live for each other, amid the pain and sacrifices, as women, we often find ourselves full; and more than that, we see the mothers" (@eagoracinderela Fernanda Marques)

The post shared by Eliana Michaelichen (@eliana) on Oct 5, 2017 at 3:29 am PDT

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